Is falling in love worth the risk? Should I guard my heart? These are questions every man asks when he thinks he's falling in love.
When my wife and I began dating almost twenty years ago, I knew there was something different about her. My best friend was marrying her best friend and, although she and I had met, we really didn't know each other. By the end of our best friends' wedding weekend, she and I were dating.
There were so many things running through my head as our relationship progressed. Did I really want to fall in love now? Is this just convenient? How could I be sure she was the one?
Nearly 20 years later, I know falling in love with her was the best decision I ever made. Looking back, I could have been assured falling in love with her was a wise decision a lot sooner if I had asked myself five simple questions. If the answers to these questions are positive, she may just be worth lowering your defenses and falling in love with.
#1 What type of trail does she leave behind?
Does she leave a trail of negative or positive outcomes? Did her past relationships fail due to her actions? Does she still have a good relationship with previous employers or did she leave in a negative way?
Don't get me wrong: people can change. The problem is most don't. Most people have previous relationships that didn't work out. There is usually a pattern, and patterns typically continue to happen. So if she cheated on someone else with you, don't be surprised if she cheats on you in the future. If she settled for her past relationship and left as soon as something better came along, take notice.
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