1. Why can’t I orgasm from the missionary position?
Because you need to experiment with a lot of positions to see what stimulates you the best! Try being on top which will give you control and apply more pressure to the clitoris. Missionary just doesn’t hit a lot of nerves for some, which is perfectly normal.
2. Why can’t I orgasm from just intercourse stimulation?
Because the clitoris has way more nerves than the vaginal canal. Your partner might not have a lot of experience in that area, and might need a helping hand. Show him what feels good – with his hands, with his mouth… a lot of girls need more than just a penis to orgasm, and sometimes a trusty vibrator can be an interesting third party to bring into the equation.
3. Why are some guys so weird about going down on girls, but love to receive oral?
Because blow jobs are a lot less taboo than cunnilingus, in our patriarchal and squeamish society. Don’t take that attitude from him if it’s something you want. Everyone needs to be a giver if they’re going to be a receiver. It might also be because they’ve been told they’re bad at it, but in that case, you can let them know you’re glad to help out and guide.

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